[name withheld 4](February 2012)

2010s, aotearoa new zealand, auckland, bay of islands, coming out, gay, homophobia, mental health, nelson, q12 (series), relationships, self harm, suicide, tauranga

abuse, change, community, dating, family, feelings, friends, gender, god, hamilton, job, normal, occupation, other, people, sexuality, social, social networking, straight, support, swimming, time, touch, tough, transgender, trick, virginity, wellington, work