Prue Hyman and Pat Rosier

The abstract of the interview titled "Prue Hyman and Pat Rosier - Older Lesbians," recorded in Paekākāriki on the Kapiti Coast District, involves a candid conversation between Prue Hyman and Pat Rosier about the unique experiences of aging as a lesbian couple. The recording, lasting 38 minutes, covers various subjects pertinent to the 2010s decade.

Hyman and Rosier touch upon the lack of extensive family ties in their lives, unlike many of their peers, as neither have children or grandchildren to provide an intricate family network or support system. They highlight that while the presence of family seems to provide a dimension of engagement for some in their later years, their focus is more on the importance and support offered by their circle of friends, particularly those from the lesbian community who play a significant role in their lives.

The interviewees discuss the dynamics of growing old without children and the consequential absence of familial care, which propels them to consider alternative care arrangements for the future. They ponder the physical impediments that aging naturally brings forth and how these health concerns become more prominent and conversational topics as one grows older. Regular exercise and careful dietary choices serve as means to manage their health conditions.

Both speak candidly about the challenges of aging as a lesbian couple, expressing concerns over the need for preparation regarding end-of-life care. They cite an instance of an interview with Mark from Lesbian Elders Village, emphasizing that options such as lesbian-specific elder communities are discussed, but not yet realized in New Zealand. Hyman and Rosier express a strong preference for staying in their beloved beach house as long as possible, implying that in-home care could be a viable option if necessary.

Rosier and Hyman reflect on societal and legal perspectives, discussing civil unions and their personal choice not to formalize their 15-year relationship through this process due to their feminist principles and lack of necessity, given their fortunate avoidance of family disputes or the need for official recognition in matters such as immigration or custody.

Furthermore, the couple shares insights into their fulfilling lives post-retirement, detailing their engagement in activities and hobbies. There is a focus on voluntary work, emphasizing a shared vision of contributing to a better world. When reflecting on legacy, there remains an awareness that memories and written materials, such as Rosier’s published fictional works exploring lesbian life in New Zealand and Hyman’s academic contributions to economic feminism, constitute their lasting impact.

Lastly, they share their considerations regarding the process of death, stressing the importance of having the option of euthanasia, while acknowledging the complexity of such decisions. They articulate the desire to continue living with quality and dignity, and without the anticipation of imminent death, highlighting the essential value of their friendships.

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