[name withheld 2](January 2000)

1970s, australia, coming out, gay, growing up, marriage, melbourne, religion, sex, snapshot 2000

anal sex, artist, building, change, children, church, clubs, coming up, dance, dancing, denial, drawing, face, family, fear, feelings, flamboyant, friends, god, grandchildren, hair, health, hell, holding hands, job, joe, karate, kissing, leather, lesbian, love, macho, makeup, masculine, music, other, painting, pants, people, public health, scene, school, sexuality, straight, study, stuff, time, walking, work