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John Jakeman

In this podcast John Jakeman talks about growing up in Wellington in the 1950s, working at the Royal Oak tavern in the 1970s, police persecution, homosexual law reform and marriage.

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The summary captures a recorded interview with John Jakeman, preserved in Wellington, Aotearoa New Zealand, documenting Jakeman’s personal experiences. Jakeman reflects on growing up in Wellington during the post-World War II era, specifically in the Newtown district, where Jakeman's family had deep ties. The interview delves into familial dynamics, including Jakeman's discovery of their father's involvement in World War II, contributing to a homefront legacy that was not without challenges and scrutiny, such as the receipt of white feathers, a historical symbol of cowardice.

Jakeman candidly discusses the experience of attending a school with diverse peers, including Greek refugee children, and recounts the long-lasting effects of a childhood incident involving their father’s conveyance that met with a tragic accident, leading to permanent injury. This would indelibly link to the family's experience of social shunning during the war. Additionally, the interview sheds light on the significant name change their father underwent from Jake to Cameron, motivated by political advice to avoid a potential scandal—an event that had ripple effects on the entire family's identity.

The discussion progresses into Jakeman’s personal journey, including changes in their own name and life experiences such as marriage to a "lovely lady." The interview delves into internal struggles with self-acceptance and shifts in sexual identity and orientation, with Jakeman identifying as a "sissy" since a young age and harboring desires aligned with what was then considered nonconformist behavior — from eavesdropping on adult conversations to embracing the joy of dressing up.

Throughout the interview, Jakeman revisits the harsh realities faced by LGBTQ+ individuals during the era, including negative societal attitudes, policing, and the stark choice between suppressing true identity or risk being criminalized. Jakeman illuminates the everyday reality and psychological impacts of living under laws that deemed homosexual acts illegal and the fear that came with being treated as a criminal for one's natural inclinations.

The conversation broaches issues of visibility and representation, highlighting Jakeman’s work in a tavern known for its diverse clientele, including individuals from the LGBTQ+ community. Narratives around workplace interactions and policing are recounted, including personal anecdotes of police intimidation and the broader implications of a societal shift following the Homosexual Law Reform in New Zealand.

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Record date:13th May 2017
Interviewer:Gareth Watkins
Copyright:pridenz.com
Location:Wellington, Aotearoa New Zealand
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Archive:The master recording is archived at the Alexander Turnbull Library (OHDL-004481).
URL:https://www.pridenz.com/john_jakeman_profile.html